It’s a fact: Frenchmen often believe anglo women are easy. So if you want to bag yourself a Frenchman, you need to play nicely. Which means don’t kiss or sleep with him on your first date. If you do, then you will just prove his theory right and he’ll move onto his next conquest.
So, what can you do? Flirt. By all means, flirt all you want. But leave him guessing, wanting that little bit more. A Frenchman likes a challenge, so if you’re not an open book and laying it all out on a platter for him, he’ll be intrigued. Also, engage in intelligent conversation. A Frenchman likes someone he can really talk with. And finally, be sure to look fabulous but also be your usual witty, confident self. A Frenchman likes a woman who is both beautiful and charming.
So when can you kiss your Frenchman? I would say the 2nd/3rd date (yeah, it’s not like I’m making you wait long). If your Frenchman has been holding and stroking your hand from across the table. Staring into your eyes. Gently touching your cheek. Telling you how good he feels with you. Then it will feel like a natural progression.
But remember, when a Frenchman kisses you, he has entered an exclusive relationship with you. Which means he is not expecting you to date or kiss any other guys.
As for sleeping with him, keep him guessing a little while longer. Making him work for it will make him appreciate you all the more.