First of all, thanks to all my new readers from Hong Kong! Feel free to leave me questions in the comments!
Today, I’d like to answer the question in my Google analytics: Do Frenchmen like cuddles?
So do they? Or don’t they?
I would say it really comes down to:
1) The guy
Some guys just aren’t tactile. Sometimes you feel like the only time they come close to you is when they want to initiate sex. It’s not easy to deal with these guys because non-sexual physical contact represents closeness, tenderness and caring for a woman. You could try and explain it to your guy, but he may not get it.
2) What he wants with you
Maybe your guy just wants to have sex with you. Meaning that when he’s done, he puts on his clothes and smokes a cigarette. Minus luvvy duvvy cuddle. This probably puts you in booty call status. If you’re not into that, keep your eyes open for someone like in number 3) below.
3) How cuddly you are
If your guy is into you, cuddles are all part of the course. Before sex, after sex, and any time at all. He’ll cuddle you just because he wants to. You’ll be watching TV and he’ll cuddle you on the sofa. Or you’ll wake up in the morning and he’ll cuddle you before the 5th snooze alarm says it’s time to get up.
My Frenchman fits into the number 3) category. I would say he’s a number 7 cuddler on a scale of 1 to 10. The cuddles I like the best are the cuddles that are just because. Those are the cutest.
So what about you? How cuddly are you?