So what is the mirror technique? It’s basically mirroring the behaviour of your man. It’s particularly useful with a Frenchman I find because you find out how into you he is.
Here’s how it works:
– He texts you. You text back.
– He calls you. You answer.
– He asks you out. You say yes.
– He offers to pay for dinner. You say thank you.
– He suggests an evening out to introduce you to his friends. You say you’d like that.
What this technique means is you do nothing. All you do is agree.
And if he doesn’t text you, call you, ask you out, or anything, you do NOTHING.
That’s right. You do not text him, call him, or ask him out. You wait for him to do it.
The reason being that with the mirror technique you find out how much he likes you. If you give him too much of a helping hand, you’ll never know. Whereas if you let him show his true motivations, you’ll see right away how into you he is.
So there it is ladies. The mirror technique. If you put it into practice, it’ll save you a lot of time. And you’ll be able to weed out the guys that you would have previously tried to have a relationship with, even though they weren’t that interested.
If you’re still not convinced, let’s look at it from another angle. Let’s face it, if you lay it all out on a platter for him, including sex, the guy’s not going to say no, even if he’s not interested. He’ll just go along with you breathing life into the relationship until something better comes along. DO NOT GO THERE.
Instead, implement the mirror technique right from the start and see what he does.
Remember, if he does nothing, you flush him. Period.