Sorry for not being around the last few weeks but I’ve been hanging out with my new Frenchman. The month of May is jam packed full of long weekends in France and so we’ve been lucky in that we’ve had plenty of time to get to know each other some more.
And what can I say? He’s adorable. He makes me laugh till I cry, wants to spend as much time as humanly possible with me, is attentive, cute, kind, caring, fun, cuddly, hot, and super tall!
I didn’t think it could be so easy to be with a man. It’s natural, easy-going, there are no “What did he mean by that?” or “When am I going to see him again?” or “Why isn’t he writing back to my text?” moments. It is what it is. Which is quite simply awesome.
What’s more, because it’s so awesome, because he’s so keen, upfront and reassuring, I’m totally cool. I honestly think that some men bring out the best in us, just as some men bring out the worst in us. And with this man I feel I’m the best version of myself. My insecurities are nowhere to be seen, I have no reason to nag, no reason to feel doubtful. It’s a great place to be!
Last night he talked about the different steps in a relationship and asked me what I thought those steps were. I ran off a list I had in my head of smart steps in the right order. Then surprised myself by saying that we should just enjoy what we had and see where it took us. That things would just happen naturally and we shouldn’t stress too much about what next. Who’d have thought!
These past few weekends, we’ve had a picnic in the park, gone out for Japanese, brunch, gone to the movies, strolled through parks, cuddled on my sofa, cuddled on his sofa, made dinner together at my place and his, gone clothes shopping together, gone to the gym together, and more and more.
This morning after he left for work I found a post-it on the bathroom mirror saying:
My little angel 🙂 xxx
It’s early days but so far so good! He makes me happy and I make him happy. It’s what matters moving forward.