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Frenchmen and sex on first dates

7 August 2014

In my analytics, this search comes up time and time again: Frenchmen and sex on first dates.

Okay, I’ll go through this one more time for new readers. If you’re on a first date with a Frenchman, his goal may well be to have sex with you. On the first date. Let’s say because he likes you and wants to express this physically and… well, all right, because he’s horny.

However, you don’t have to have sex with him. Just because he bought you a nice dinner and whispered poetry in your ear, doesn’t mean you have to take things to the bedroom.

Oh really? Well, yes. He may make you swoon but you can wait a little. To build anticipation and hook him. But also to protect your heart.

If you want to throw caution to the wind, sure go ahead and sleep with the guy. But he may not call you afterwards. This could be because:

a) he wasn’t that interested, he just wanted sex
b) he’s not after a relationship
c) the sex wasn’t good
d) you didn’t send the right message by sleeping with him on the first date (this last one is a mind boggler, I know)

Now, if you can take the possibility of rejection, I would say go for it if you’re just as horny as him. But if you’re a wee bit sensitive and you’re looking for a relationship, then take the slow train to sex. Hey, that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy the ride there…

Bises,

Datea x

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I hope you enjoyed the post. Thanks for reading and be sure to leave a comment. I hope to see you back here soon! Take care. Bises, Datea x

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24 Comments

  • Reply Anonymous 12 August 2014 at 08:24

    In my experience sex on the first date with a french guy never worked out ! The nice guys that end up sticking around it's more like a kiss on the first date, then sex on the second or third date. I find it pretty easy to avoid the risk by going on dates during the day, having something else to go to in the evening and certainly avoiding going to each other's apartments !

    I have another question ! It's getting old meeting guys online, I'd really like to meet guys offline ! But I haven't had much luck, only one offline hookup in 5 years in France, and he was a total loser ! …. I think I'm not very approachable offline. Like many girls I get comments on the street but that just upsets and scares me, am I supposed to stop and chat with these guys ? And I find the french impossible for striking up idle chat when out and about ! I work in fashion, have almost no single friends, and am in my mid-30's, I don't meet single guys my age really ever ! What do you think I can do ?

  • Reply Dateafrenchman 13 August 2014 at 08:44

    Hello Anonymous (remember to leave a name next time) – I agree, a relationship is much harder to develop from sex on a first date. As for your question, first of all it's an excellent question. It's pretty damn hard to meet single guys in France when you're in your 30s. Because they're often already in a couple and they stick to their friend groups. The latter is probably why your idle chatting when out and about isn't working. For solutions, responding to guys on the street is not a good idea for sure. I would say online (a site you pay for) although I know you want to meet guys offline 🙂 Otherwise, speed dating, saying yes to invitations to parties, joining an activity group. How about a cooking class where you cook and eat together? There's one in the 11th I walked past the other day – cook & go. It's tough offline I know. Because there's no guarantee there will be guys there or that they will be single.

    Do come back and keep me posted.

    Bises,

    Datea x

  • Reply Ginny 13 August 2014 at 09:13

    Oh thanks for your help ! I'm Ginny btw 🙂 I haven't found speed dating in Paris, outside of expat circles which I'd like to get out of, do you know of something ? Yes I've thought about finding group activity to do with others, hiking, photography, etc… I often go to coworking spaces or Starbucks, but no one seems to ever look up from their computers/phones etc… It is easy to meet online but I seem to be repeatedly meeting guys that are relationship avoidant, guess it's more their age if they're successful and interesting it's because they haven't put any time into having relationships. ug. anyways thanks !

  • Reply Dateafrenchman 13 August 2014 at 10:57

    Hi Ginny – There's softdating.com but it's not great unless you fall upon a great group I guess. Yeah, co-working spaces and Starbucks can't be easy to strike up a convo. It just doesn't happen that way. I'd say try a group and streamline more online. Don't meet up with guys too fast, get to know them a bit more online first to check how much effort they're willing to make. Remember, you don't need lots of guys, you just need the right one.

    Bises,

    Datea x

  • Reply Anne 13 August 2014 at 11:16

    Hi Datea! I have an idea for a blog post. What about asking your readers how they met their frenchman? It seems like many readers are curious on how to meet up with a guy, especially french guys. Would be great to hear more experiences! X

  • Reply Ginny 13 August 2014 at 13:35

    Ok great i signed up for a soft dating event, sounds perfect 🙂 I do screen well online, I'd like to meet offline to leave more to chance as I think I'm just picking guys who are more interested in everything but relationships ! I'm not sure the not meeting to fast works, as one guy “pursued” me online for more than a month, and turned out he wasn't looking for a relationship either. They think they are ! but intimacy with a girl is a scary thing for these guys that are happy living alone with their fulfilling jobs and circle of friends. The search continues !!

  • Reply Kamala Siddartha 17 August 2014 at 23:58

    I've been texting a frenchie for a week. He has been living in Ca for a year. He also said he has only kissed one American girl. We met yesterday for coffee, he said I was charming and we are going to a movie tonight. Thank you so much for your blog, without it I would be very standoffish because of the games American guys play.
    This guy already says he likes me and wants to hug and kiss me. He already put “seeing someone” on his profile. Is this for real? Can I really assume we are in a relationship if we kiss tonight?

  • Reply Kamala Siddartha 18 August 2014 at 03:52

    Nevermind. He totally cancelled after he was an hour late. Guess he's been in the Valley too long lol

  • Reply Dateafrenchman 18 August 2014 at 13:25

    Hi Ginny – Let me know how the soft dating goes. I know what you're talking about when you say for some men it's all about the chase and they're happy enough with their jobs and friends and the occasional fling. I'd say don't give up on online dating. If you know you tend to pick guys interested in everything but a relationship, how about you try and break the pattern. By picking a guy out of your comfort zone. Someone that's different from your type. Do come back and let me know you're getting on.

    Bises,

    Datea x

  • Reply Dateafrenchman 18 August 2014 at 13:25

    Hi Anne – Great idea! Blog post coming up.

    Bises,

    Datea x

  • Reply Dateafrenchman 18 August 2014 at 13:28

    Hello Kamala – I'm curious, did he reschedule? If he contacted you I'd give him another chance. If he doesn't though, you're right, that's that. Seems strange though, because he seemed into you.

    Do come back and let me know if there's more to this story.

    Bises,

    Datea x

  • Reply Kamala Siddartha 18 August 2014 at 17:11

    Not at the time. He said he was tired and wouldn't be good company. Then texted good night early But started early with the “good morning sunshine” and asked if we could meet up today. He doesn't make set plans tho. I like to set a time and an activity. He is very loose with things, I will be having a meeting near his work at 6 so he asked if we could meet up before. He said “let me know when you get close. Lol I want to pepper him with questions. “What time do you get off? Where do you what to meet? What do you want to do?” I'm too much. And I'm still irritated from his blow off last night.

  • Reply Dateafrenchman 18 August 2014 at 17:52

    Hi Kamala – Unfortunately, Frenchmen don't let to make set plans for dates. It's definitely more of a go with the flow deal. Asking him all your questions will probably annoy him because it's not the way he operates. If I were you, if you're interested, give him a break for last night. Maybe he was just tired and was being honest. See what happens tonight and take it from there. But I'd drop talking about why he cancelled. Be upbeat, positive, flirty, fun and enjoy yourself!

    Bises,

    Datea x

  • Reply Kamala Siddartha 22 August 2014 at 03:05

    Ok I went on a lunch date with him today. We get along fine and there is a mutual attraction. He even gave me a little kiss. I did ask him about his “seeing someone” status on the dating site and he said he is living with his ex girlfriend that he was only with a few months and they have been broken up a few months. They sleep in separate rooms. This is a little confusing and I want to ask questions but I read that French guys stay friends with their exs and it's not a big deal. So should I just trust it or ask for more details?

  • Reply Dateafrenchman 22 August 2014 at 07:06

    Hi Kamala – Is he planning on moving out or are he and his ex planning on staying flatmates? Yes, French guys tend to stay friends with their exes but living with them is taking it a bit far. I guess I'd be wondering if they were friends with benefits. Lots of questions here but if you grill him he'll probably get annoyed by your probing when you've just met. I'd say give it time, see how much you like each other, and if you guys really hit it off, he should initiate moving out because it will get weird. Imagine you sleep over and the ex is in the next room, awkward. At that point, you could perhaps flippantly say something flirty about him getting his own space. But it should come from him. Unless of course he's one of those guys who goes from girlfriend's apt to girlfriend's apt and never gets his own place. Only time will tell. And of course how much you feel you trust him. And how much your potential insecurities can take.

    Don't forget to read my last post about one of your questions.

    Bises,

    Datea x

  • Reply Anne 7 December 2014 at 00:47

    Hi there. First, thank you so much for sharing your experience with your french men. I am now seeing a French man too, can you please give me some advice?
    I met him in a bar, we exchanged numbers and he asked me to dinner the next day. I must say, I got a big hit. He was so caring, so sweet. Well, then I made a mistake, we kissed and cuddled a lot during that first date, which now I know after reading your blog is a sign that he wants sex. But I said no when he asked me to come to his place.
    I by chance then discovered that he was seeing many other girls at the same time. This is when I made the second mistake: I told him I was upset to know that. He texted me, explaining that those girls are just friends, he dont date them, and there was no kiss nor sex.
    So now our relationship is coming to the point that he wants sex. This is going to be just one week after we meet. Should I delay having sex with him? I wonder if he is just playing around with me to have sex, or does he want to hang out more so that we know more about each other. What should I do to delay having sex with him, because I don't want to turn the relationship into a no-string-attach kind of relationship?
    Thank you very much
    Anne

  • Reply Anne 9 June 2016 at 21:27

    I have date with a french man and we make love at first date and now he said he want to marry me. We always talk FaceTime and exchanges message. He also introduced me to his friends. Is his intention is for real.

    • Datea
      Reply Datea 12 June 2016 at 13:32

      Hello Anne,
      It sounds like he’s totally carried away. Only time will tell how much he means what he says. Right now it’s way too early to think his intentions are real. He’s feeling what he’s saying in the moment, but will he still feel that way 6 months from now? I say enjoy and see how things develop!
      Bises,
      Datea x

  • Reply Kylie 10 December 2016 at 04:20

    I met this Frenchman in an online dating app. We clicked and after few days he asked me out for a date. We kissed on our first date and got a lil horny. He said that he would love to have sex but won’t like to give an impression that he is after for that. Days after he left for a 3 day-vacation but remains to contact me. I didn’t want to be the clingy one so I don’t message him that often. I wanted him to have fun. During his short vacation he messaged me that he wanted to see me before leaving for France (we are working abroad and he will come home to France for the holidays). So we did eventually meet and sex happened. More and more sex. He said he wanted to know more about me and that he is happy with me. He even made plans when he comes back we would hang out and all. He’s leaving the day after. But it seems like it has been 2 days already that I haven’t heard from him. He didn’t message me. What should I do? Is he really that into me? Or he was just overwhelmed on the moment that made him say those things? I’m trying the mirror thing. I like him but I’m controlling my feelings cause I don’t want to be hurt again.

    • Datea
      Reply Datea 10 December 2016 at 10:33

      Hi Kylie,
      You’re doing the right thing by using the mirror technique. The only way you’ll know if he’s into you is to wait. So don’t call or text. Do nothing. And if he does call, pick up, if he does text, text back. If you feel yourself wanting to text him late one night, turn your phone off or call a friend. Remember, it’s for a good cause, because if he’s not that into you, you’ll just be making it easier for him to hook up with you again or keep you on the back burner, and it sounds like you’re more after a relationship. Let me know how it goes.
      Bises,
      Datea x

      • Reply Kylie 11 December 2016 at 22:06

        Been reading your blog since-I-kinda dating this French man. By the way, he texted me saying he was thinking about me. He’s not kind of a texter cause according to him, he usually wants a personal conversation than thru text messages. When we exchange messages it won’t take long and I often ran out of topics to discuss. I’m a talker but when it comes to some people I like I tend to shut off. Help! Any advice for him to be interested of me? He didn’t reply now

        • Datea
          Reply Datea 12 December 2016 at 16:10

          Hi again Kylie,
          Like I said, I think the mirror technique is best here. If he’s not a texter, then he can always call or skype. But the suggestion should come from him. As should plans to meet up when he gets back from France. Other than that, just be yourself, flirt, have fun, enjoy yourself. If he’s interested, you’ll know.
          Bises,
          Datea x

  • Reply Phuoc 30 March 2017 at 07:25

    Hello there. I met a French guy online and then he ask me to meet him. He wanted me to come over to his place (watching movie ,etc), but he seems also comfortable if we go to have some coffee first as I asked. Does that mean he wants sex if he invited me to come over with him? And what should I do if he wants sex (deny or accept)? I am fine with sex on a first date with him but I’m worrying that it might make he feels that I’m too easy and he will get bored of me soon.
    And one more thing that I wanted to ask is that what are the signs that he likes me and wants to go further to a serious relationship after the first date (with sex/ without sex)?
    Thank you for all of your answers!

  • Reply jane 5 December 2017 at 01:54

    Hi, so i went on a date with a french man this past weekend. We met via bumble and we had sex. That next morning, he was very sweet and texted me songs and such, and I texted him ‘thank you for the night, i had a good time and i hope you did too’. he responded ‘yeah i had a good time too :)’. i haven’t texted back in two days and don’t know what to say because i would like for him to ask me out again without seeming too desperate. how do i know if he wants to meet again? i am hoping that he didn’t see our evening as just a one-time hookup. thank you!

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    Le clic sur le bouton « Purchase » sur l’écran qui finalise la commande et l’acceptation explicite par une case Ă  cocher des prĂ©sentes conditions gĂ©nĂ©rales de vente et d’utilisation, constitue une signature Ă©lectronique qui certifie expressĂ©ment le consentement sans rĂ©serve de la cliente aux prĂ©sentes conditions gĂ©nĂ©rales de vente et d’utilisation et aux conditions particulières (en particulier le prix unitaire) propres Ă  chaque produit achetĂ©. La cliente renonce, de ce fait, Ă  se prĂ©valoir de tout document contradictoire et, notamment, ses propres conditions gĂ©nĂ©rales d’achat.

    La cliente peut abandonner sa commande jusqu’Ă  la validation du paiement de sa commande.

    www.dateafrenchman.com confirme Ă  la cliente la validation du paiement de sa commande par courriel Ă  l’adresse indiquĂ©e par cette dernière. La vente n’est considĂ©rĂ©e comme conclue qu’Ă  compter de l’acceptation du paiement sur l’espace sĂ©curisĂ© PAYPAL et de la confirmation Ă  la cliente de la validation du paiement de sa commande par courriel.

    www.dateafrenchman.com se rĂ©serve le droit de refuser ou d’annuler toute nouvelle commande d’une cliente avec lequel un litige existerait.

    La commande ne sera pas confirmĂ©e si www.dateafrenchman.com n’est pas en mesure de livrer pour quelque raison que ce soit et notamment en cas de problème technique. En ce cas, elle en informera la cliente par courriel dans les plus brefs dĂ©lais.

    En cas d’erreur dans le libellĂ© des coordonnĂ©es du destinataire, www.dateafrenchman.com ne saurait ĂŞtre tenu pour responsable de l’impossibilitĂ© de livraison.

    Article 2 : Disponibilité des produits

    Les produits sont normalement accessibles par la cliente 24 heures sur 24, 7 jours sur 7 et toute l’annĂ©e. L’administrateur de ce site se rĂ©serve nĂ©anmoins le droit d’en fermer temporairement l’accès sans prĂ©avis.

    Il ne saurait être tenu responsable des problèmes techniques indépendants de son service, tels que des problèmes de connexion dus aux fournisseurs d’accès Internet ou des problèmes informatiques dus au matériel ou aux logiciels de la cliente.

    Article 3 : Descriptions des produits

    Je t’embrasse fort : est un ebook Ă©crit en anglais comprenant 21 chapitres et 277 pages sur comment frĂ©quenter un français et avoir une relation avec un français.

    Sweet-Talk your Frenchman : est un cours de 3 semaines sur comment être romantique et spontanée, comment flirter et être mignonne en français. La cliente recevra un fichier texte et un fichier audio par semaine pour 3 semaines.

    Your Online Profile in French : est le dĂ©veloppement d’un profil Ă©crit en français destinĂ© Ă  un site de rencontre français.

    Dating Coaching 4 weeks : est du coaching individuel sur les dĂ©buts d’une rencontre et d’une frĂ©quentation avec un français et inclut 1 appel par Skype par semaine pendant 4 semaines avec des Ă©changes par mail si besoin entre les appels. Le ebook Je t’embrasse fort et Your Online Profile in French sont compris.

    Relationship Coaching 8 weeks : est du coaching individuel sur le dĂ©veloppement d’une relation avec un français et inclut 1 appel par Skype par semaine pendant 8 semaines avec des Ă©changes par mail si besoin entre les appels. Le ebook Je t’embrasse fort, Your Online Profile in French et Sweet-Talk your Frenchman sont compris.

    Article 4 : Prix

    Les prix affichés sur le site www.dateafrenchman.com sont exprimés en euros et payables en euros à la commande. Tous les prix sont indiqués Hors Taxe (TVA non applicable, conformément à l’article 293B du Code Général des Impôts).

    Les prix de vente peuvent être modifiés à tout moment.

    Article 5 : Paiement

    Le prix est payable en totalité et en un seul versement à la commande.

    Dès la validation du moyen de paiement utilisĂ© par l’acheteur, la commande est confirmĂ©e et ne peut plus ĂŞtre annulĂ©e ni remboursĂ©e.

    Le règlement des achats sur le site www.dateafrenchman.com s’opère exclusivement en euros et s’effectue par carte bancaire via le site sĂ©curisĂ© PAYPAL au moment de la commande. PAYPAL vous permet de payer directement sans communiquer vos informations financières sur Internet. PAYPAL crypte automatiquement vos donnĂ©es confidentielles Ă  l’aide des meilleures technologies disponibles sur le marchĂ© (protocole Secure Sockets Layer -SSL- avec clĂ© de cryptage de 128 bits).

    Nota : pour acheter via PAYPAL, vous n’ĂŞtes pas obligĂ© d’avoir un compte PAYPAL.

    Article 6 : Livraison

    La livraison du livre numĂ©rique et d’autres produits numĂ©riques acquises sur ce site se fait par tĂ©lĂ©chargement. Dans les 24 heures après la validation du paiement de la commande, un courriel est envoyĂ© Ă  la cliente avec un lien ou des liens de tĂ©lĂ©chargement permettant de charger le livre numĂ©rique et les autres produits numĂ©riques sur son appareil Ă©lectronique (ordinateur, smartphone, tablette).

    Tout lien de tĂ©lĂ©chargement a une durĂ©e de vie de 72 heures. Au-delĂ  de ce dĂ©lai, si la cliente n’a pas tĂ©lĂ©chargĂ© le fichier, elle pourra crĂ©er un compte ICI pour avoir accès Ă  tous ses liens de tĂ©lĂ©chargement ou demander l’envoi d’un nouveau lien par courriel Ă  DATEA Ă  datea@dateafrenchman.com.

    Dans le cas du produit Sweet-Talk your Frenchman, le courriel envoyé à la cliente comprendra 2 liens de téléchargement permettant de charger un fichier texte et un fichier audio. Une semaine plus tard, un deuxième courriel sera envoyé à la cliente avec 2 liens de téléchargement permettant de charger un fichier texte et un fichier audio, et une autre semaine plus tard, un troisième courriel sera envoyé à la cliente avec 2 autres liens de téléchargement permettant de charger un fichier texte et un fichier audio.

    Dans le cas de Dating Coaching 4 weeks, un courriel sera envoyĂ© Ă  la cliente avec 3 liens de tĂ©lĂ©chargement : 1 pour Dating Coaching 4 weeks, 1 pour le ebook Je t’embrasse fort et 1 pour Your Online Profile in French.

    Dans le cas de Relationship Coaching 8 weeks, un courriel sera envoyĂ© Ă  la cliente avec 5 liens de tĂ©lĂ©chargement : 1 pour Relationship Coaching 8 weeks, 1 pour le ebook Je t’embrasse fort, 1 pour Your Online Profile in French et 2 pour Sweet-Talk your Frenchman (4 liens de tĂ©lĂ©chargement seront envoyĂ©s ultĂ©rieurement Ă  la cliente pour ce dernier).

    Article 7 : Prestations et obligations – Coaching et Your Online Profile in French

    Coaching : Les appels pour les produits Dating Coaching 4 weeks et Relationship Coaching 8 weeks se feront uniquement par Skype donc une connection Internet et un compte Skype est nécessaire. Un compte Skype peut être créé ICI. Les dates et heures des appels Skype seront organisées entre la cliente et DATEA pour convenir aux deux parties dans les plus brefs délais.

    A partir de la date de commande de Dating Coaching 4 weeks, la cliente dispose de 8 semaines pour rĂ©aliser sa prestation. Il est ainsi impĂ©ratif d’organiser les dates et heures des 4 appels Skype le plus tĂ´t possible. Aucun versement ne pourra ĂŞtre remboursĂ©.

    A partir de la date de commande de Relationship Coaching 8 weeks, la cliente dispose de 12 semaines pour rĂ©aliser sa prestation. Il est ainsi impĂ©ratif d’organiser les dates et heures des 4 appels Skype le plus tĂ´t possible. Aucun versement ne pourra ĂŞtre remboursĂ©.

    Une fois que DATEA a reçu par courriel Ă  datea@dateafrenchman.com le questionnaire complĂ©tĂ© par la cliente, des mails seront Ă©changĂ©s entre DATEA et la cliente pour fixer les rendez-vous des appels et pour dĂ©cider sur l’orientation du coaching. DATEA ne pourra ĂŞtre tenue pour responsable de l’inexĂ©cution de cette prestation si le questionnaire n’est pas complĂ©tĂ© entièrement par la cliente ou si la cliente ne rĂ©pond pas aux courriels de DATEA.

    Après la prise de rendez-vous des appels, DATEA fera parvenir à la cliente par courriel une confirmation des dates et heures des rendez-vous.

    La cliente s’engage Ă  respecter les dates et les heures des appels Skype convenu prĂ©alablement. Au delĂ  d’un retard supĂ©rieur Ă  30 minutes, DATEA se rĂ©serve le droit d’annuler ou de reporter l’appel. En cas de non prĂ©sence de la cliente Ă  la date et l’heure d’un appel organisĂ©, aucun remboursement ne sera effectuĂ©. De mĂŞme, tout appel non annulĂ© au moins 48 heures Ă  l’avance sera perdu, sauf cas de force majeure, entendu comme Ă©tant un Ă©vĂ©nement imprĂ©visible et irrĂ©sistible, indĂ©pendant de la volontĂ© de la cliente, selon la lĂ©gislation et la jurisprudence constante. Un justificatif sera alors exigĂ©. Pour annuler un appel, un courriel devrait ĂŞtre envoyĂ© Ă  DATEA Ă  datea@dateafrenchman.com et un nouvel appel sera organisĂ© pour convenir aux deux parties dans les plus brefs dĂ©lais.

    Des courriels peuvent être envoyés à DATEA à datea@dateafrenchman.com entre les appels organisés pour échanger sur des sujets qui ne peuvent pas attendre le prochain appel.

    Your Online Profile in French : Une fois que DATEA a reçu par courriel Ă  datea@dateafrenchman.com le questionnaire complĂ©tĂ© par la cliente, des mails seront Ă©changĂ©s entre DATEA et la cliente jusqu’à l’approbation de la version finale du profil en français par la cliente. DATEA ne pourra ĂŞtre tenue pour responsable de l’inexĂ©cution de cette prestation si le questionnaire n’est pas complĂ©tĂ© entièrement par la cliente ou si la cliente ne rĂ©pond pas aux courriels de DATEA.

    A partir de la date de commande de Your Online Profile in French, la cliente dispose de 12 semaines pour réaliser sa prestation. Il est ainsi impératif de compléter le questionnaire et de répondre aux mails de DATEA le plus tôt possible. Aucun versement ne pourra être remboursé.

    La cliente est seule responsable de la mise en ligne de son profil en français sur le site de rencontre français de son choix.

    Article 8 : Service clientèle

    Pour toute information, question ou conseil, vous pouvez contacter DATEA par courriel Ă  datea@dateafrenchman.com.

    Article 9 : Droit de rétractation

    Les achats de tout produit sont fermes et définitifs. Ils ne pourront donner lieu à aucun échange, remboursement ou droit de rétractation.

    Article 10 : Téléchargement et lecture des fichiers numériques

    Le téléchargement consiste en la transmission et la reproduction, sur l’appareil électronique de la cliente, d’un fichier numérique intégrant le produit choisie. L’accès à ces fichiers requiert l’utilisation d’Internet et d’appareils électroniques reliés à internet (ordinateur, smartphone, tablette).

    Le livre numérique est disponible en format PDF (Portable Document Format) : format de fichier informatique créé par Adobe Systems. Un logiciel de lecture de .pdf est donc nécessaire. Sweet-Talk your Frenchman est disponible en format PDF et QuickTime (un plateforme multimédia). Un logiciel de lecture .pdf et un logiciel de lecteur audio .m4a sont donc nécessaires. Your Online Profile in French, Dating Coaching 4 weeks et Relationship Coaching 8 weeks sont disponibles en format Word (un logiciel de traitement de texte). Un logiciel de lecture de .doc ou .docx est donc nécessaire.

    Article 11 : Protection des droits d’auteurs

    Le livre numérique et les autres produits numériques proposés par www.dateafrenchman.com sont uniquement destinés à un usage strictement personnel, privé et gratuit. La cliente s’engage expressément à garder confidentiel le lien de téléchargement qui lui sera transmis et à ne pas le communiquer sous quelque forme que ce soit à un tiers.

    Toute reproduction, adaptation ou représentation sous quelque forme et par quelque moyen que ce soit, et particulièrement à la revente, l’échange, le louage et le transfert à un tiers sont interdits et exposent son auteur à des poursuites judiciaires, civiles ou pénales prévues par les dispositions en vigueur du code de la propriété intellectuelle.

    Le livre numérique, les produits numériques ainsi que tous les éléments reproduits sur la fiche produit de chaque produit (notamment textes et illustrations) sont protégés par le Code de la Propriété Intellectuelle et par les normes internationales applicables.

    La cliente s’engage à respecter les droits des auteurs, interprètes et éditeurs et à ne pas contourner, ni porter atteinte aux mesures techniques de protection. L’atteinte aux mesures techniques de protection est sanctionnée par des délits spécifiques visés à l’article L 335-3-1 et suivants du Code de la Propriété Intellectuelle.

    Toute détérioration, ainsi que, en l’absence d’autorisation, toute représentation, reproduction, modification, utilisation commerciale, totale ou partielle, de différents éléments du présent site est interdite et expose son auteur à des poursuites judiciaires. Les présentes conditions générales et particulières n’emportent pas autorisation de représenter, reproduire, modifier ou utiliser commercialement les différents éléments du site.

    Article 12 : Responsabilité

    – www.dateafrenchman.com dĂ©gage toute responsabilitĂ© en cas d’inexĂ©cution du contrat due Ă  un cas de force majeure (grève, inondation, incendie…).

    – www.dateafrenchman.com ne saurait ĂŞtre tenu pour responsable quant au contenu des sites sur lesquels ses produits sont rĂ©fĂ©rencĂ©s.

    – Les produits proposĂ©s sont conformes Ă  la lĂ©gislation française en vigueur. La responsabilitĂ© de www.dateafrenchman.com ne saurait ĂŞtre engagĂ©e en cas de non-respect de la lĂ©gislation du pays oĂą le produit est expĂ©diĂ© ou tĂ©lĂ©chargĂ©. Il appartient Ă  l’acheteur de vĂ©rifier auprès des autoritĂ©s locales compĂ©tentes les possibilitĂ©s d’utilisation des produits commandĂ©s.

    – La cliente est seule responsable du choix et de l’utilisation de ses produits, dont il fera son affaire personnelle. www.dateafrenchman.com ne peut ĂŞtre tenu pour responsable de tout dommage ou perte de qualitĂ© dĂ» Ă  l’usage des produits achetĂ©s sur le site.

    – DATEA n’est ni thĂ©rapeute ni psychologue professionnel. En achetant les produits sur le site, la cliente reconnait que les conseils et coaching donnĂ©s par DATEA sont basĂ©s sur son expĂ©rience. La cliente est seule responsable de ses actions et choix et les consĂ©quences de ces derniers suite Ă  l’utilisation des produits achetĂ©s sur le site et la mise en pratique des conseils et coaching donnĂ©s par DATEA.

    – La cliente est seule responsable de ses interactions avec les hommes rencontrĂ©s une fois que cette cliente a mis en ligne son profil en français, dĂ©veloppĂ© grâce Ă  Your Online Profile in French, sur le site de rencontre français de son choix. Le service de DATEA prend fin automatiquement Ă  partir du moment ou la cliente a approuvĂ© la version finale du profil en français.

    Article 13 : Exclusion de garantie

    En cas de non utilisation de la commande de Dating Coaching 4 weeks, Relationship Coaching 8 weeks et Your Online Profile in French (dépassement du délai de 8 semaines, 12 semaines et 12 semaines respectivement, cf. article 7), la cliente ne pourra prétendre à un remboursement.

    Article 14 : Protection des données personnelles

    ConformĂ©ment Ă  l’article 34 de la loi française du 06 janvier 1978 relative Ă  l’informatique, aux fichiers et aux libertĂ©s, la cliente dispose d’un droit d’accès, de modification, de rectification et de suppression des donnĂ©es nominatives qui le concernent.

    Ce droit peut être exercé en contactant DATEA par courriel à datea@dateafrenchman.com.

    Les informations donnĂ©es par la cliente sont strictement confidentielles et Ă  l’usage exclusif de www.dateafrenchman.com qui s’engage Ă  ne pas diffuser les donnĂ©es clients Ă  des tiers.

    Article 15 : Droit applicable

    Les prĂ©sentes conditions gĂ©nĂ©rales de vente et d’utilisation sont soumises Ă  la loi française.

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